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En g\u00e9n\u00e9ral, on s’attache. On est un peu prudent au d\u00e9but, mais on se laisse aller. On donne une chance \u00e0 notre relation. On esp\u00e8re. On y croit. Puis tout commence bien. Normal, c’est le d\u00e9but. Le d\u00e9but est toujours. Tout p\u00e9tille, tout brille. On voit la vie en rose. On ne vit plus que par elle, ou par lui. Plus rien n’existe autour. Tout va bien dans le meilleur des mondes. On se dit qu’on a bien fait d’y croire car apparemment<\/strong>, \u00e7a marche. Puis un jour, on se rappelle du mot apparemment<\/strong>, dans la phrase apparemment<\/strong> \u00e7a marche<\/em>. On se dit qu’on a peut-\u00eatre parl\u00e9 trop vite. Tout \u00e9tait un peu trop beau pour durer. On vient de r\u00e9aliser que celle ou celui qu’on aime, celle ou celui pour qui on a tant donn\u00e9, nous a tromp\u00e9. Cette personne est all\u00e9e voir quelqu’un d’autre. Elle est all\u00e9e prendre du plaisir ailleurs. Je ne la satisfais pas\u00a0? J’\u00e9tais trop collant\u00a0? Ou peut-\u00eatre pas assez\u00a0? Ai-je dit ou fait quelque chose de mal\u00a0? Des milliers de sentiments nous traversent l’esprit. On ne comprend plus rien \u00e0 la vie. Tout allait si bien il y a quelques jours. Tout va si mal maintenant. Pourquoi \u00e7a tombe sur moi…<\/p>\n

L’infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 est une chose bien trop pr\u00e9sente dans nos vies. Dans beaucoup de couple, l’un ou l’autre va voir ailleurs. Pourquoi\u00a0? Il y a tant de raison. Mais il y a bien un truc que je ne comprend pas\u00a0: Pourquoi ceux qui vont voir ailleurs prennent le temps de se poser dans une relation\u00a0? Pourquoi les hommes ou les femmes marier, restent avec leur \u00e9poux(se) s’ils ressentent l’envie d’aller voir ailleurs\u00a0? Je n’ai jamais compris le fonctionnement de certaines personnes.
\nD\u00e9j\u00e0, il faut pouvoir tromper la personne que l’on est sens\u00e9 aimer. En 18 ans, alors que les occasions se sont pr\u00e9sent\u00e9es \u00e0 plusieurs reprises, je n’ai jamais tromp\u00e9 mes petites copines. C’\u00e9tait parfois dur, car la tentation \u00e9tait grande (et comme on le dit si bien\u00a0: le meilleur moyen de r\u00e9sister \u00e0 la tentation, c’est d’y c\u00e9der), mais je pense que quand on construit une relation avec quelqu’un, c’est pas pour tout foutre en l’air d\u00e8s la premi\u00e8re occasion. C’est vrai qu’on a qu’une vie et qu’il faut profiter, mais il y a d’autres mani\u00e8res de profiter, et de s’amuser, sans faire par la m\u00eame occasion, du mal aux autres. Ceux qui vont voir ailleurs ne se rendent pas compte qu’ils font souffrir du monde \u00e0 cause de leurs actes.<\/p>\n

L’infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 existe. Elle est existe trop. On peut la faire dispara\u00eetre en arr\u00eatant de jouer. Je suis totalement contre<\/strong>. Peut-\u00eatre qu’un jour je me laisserai tenter par une grande tentation mais j’esp\u00e8re de tout coeur que non. J’ai bien commenc\u00e9, et je compte bien finir, car je n’aime pas \u00e7a. C’est malsain. C’est un peu comme les gens qui sortent avec plusieurs personnes en m\u00eame temps. C’est nul. Je ne pourrai pas. J’aime me consacrer \u00e0 100% \u00e0 une personne. Pas \u00e0 5 en m\u00eame temps;<\/p>\n

L’infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 entre aussi en compte dans l’amiti\u00e9. C’est diff\u00e9rent mais \u00e7a peut faire tout aussi mal. C’est de plus assez courant. Vous croyez un jour pouvoir compter sur quelqu’un. Le lendemain, il vous a d\u00e9j\u00e0 oubli\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Il faut \u00eatre tr\u00e8s prudent dans sa vie maintenant… tr\u00e8s prudent…<\/p>\n

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