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Je ne savais pas que c’\u00e9tait la pol\u00e9mique du moment<\/em> mais d’apr\u00e8s le magazine Elle, si ! En m\u00eame temps, les pol\u00e9miques, c’est ce qui fait vivre les gens j’ai l’impression…<\/p>\n

Actuellement, si le papa et la maman ne se tape pas dessus, il peut y avoir un choix r\u00e9fl\u00e9chi quant \u00e0 la garde de l’enfant. Altern\u00e9e ou non. Ce que l’on voit le plus, ce sont des enfants qui vivent chez leur m\u00e8re en semaine et chez leur p\u00e8re le week end (voire un week end sur deux) puis une partie des vacances scolaires. C’est une r\u00e9alit\u00e9, les femmes ont plus souvent \u00e7a dans le sang que les hommes. Heureusement, il existe des exceptions (de plus en plus nombreuse).<\/p>\n

A pr\u00e9sent, des d\u00e9put\u00e9s cherchent \u00e0 faire voter une loi pour obliger la garde altern\u00e9e. Pour ou contre ? Je suis contre !<\/strong><\/p>\n

C’est d\u00e9j\u00e0 un chamboulement pour un enfant de voir ses parents divorcer (peu importe son \u00e2ge, c’est toujours dur m\u00eame si on le vit\u00a0diff\u00e9remment). Il ne comprend pas ce qui lui arrive. Il n’a rien demand\u00e9 \u00e0 personne lui et il n’a pas toujours l’\u00e2ge pour comprendre le relation entre un homme et une femme, l’amour, etc. Cependant, il doit subir cette s\u00e9paration. Cette situation est de plus en plus courante de nos jours. Si les parents font \u00e7a bien, l’enfant peut s’habituer \u00e0 cette nouvelle vie non sans difficult\u00e9s. Beaucoup de param\u00e8tres entrent en compte. L’\u00e2ge de l’enfant, son caract\u00e8re, etc. La plupart des enfants \u00ab\u00a0d\u00e9rang\u00e9s\u00a0\u00bb ont des parents divorc\u00e9s. Je ne l’invente pas, c’est une r\u00e9alit\u00e9 !
\nMais les parents qui font \u00e7a bien sont trop rares et c’est bien triste. Ils pensent d’abord \u00e0 eux avant de penser \u00e0 leur enfant ! C’est impressionnant de voir le nombre d’enfant qui subit le divorce de leur parent. Ils entendent des engueulades, des mots horribles, ils voient des gestes qu’ils ne devraient jamais voir. En clair, ils voient les deux personnes qui comptent le plus que tout devenir les pires ennemies. C’est tout simplement hallucinant. Ils deviennent ensuite le confident de la maman qui pleure car elle est triste de la situation, puis du papa qui fait comprendre \u00e0 son enfant ador\u00e9 que sa m\u00e8re fait n’importe quoi, que c’est de sa faute s’ils ont divorc\u00e9s, que lui n’a jamais voulu \u00e7a…<\/p>\n

Oui, c’est le bordel<\/strong>. De plus en plus, les divorces se d\u00e9roulent mal, pour de nombreuses raisons.<\/p>\n

Revenons maintenant \u00e0 la garde altern\u00e9e car je me suis un peu \u00e9loign\u00e9 du sujet. \u00catre p\u00e8re ou m\u00e8re ne s’invente pas. Ca s’apprend, parfois c’est inn\u00e9, mais \u00e7a reste quelque chose de difficile qui demande de l’attention, de la r\u00e9flexion et un peu de bon sens. Dans certaines familles, \u00e7a ne se passe pas bien car le p\u00e8re ou la m\u00e8re n’arrive pas \u00e0 \u00eatre parent, \u00e0 comprendre son enfant, \u00e0 lui apporter ce dont il a besoin… Parfois, c’est pour d’autres raisons : il\/elle travaille t\u00f4t et n’est jamais l\u00e0. Il\/elle n’a pas d’argent pour vivre correctement. Il\/elle souhaite refaire sa vie ailleurs. Il\/elle veut surtout profiter de sa vie, etc. Cela veut dire, pour moi, qu’un enfant, parfois, peut \u00eatre beaucoup mieux dans sa vie (en plus d’assumer le divorce) s’il reste avec l’un des deux. Ce \u00ab\u00a0l’un des deux\u00a0\u00bb qui pourra lui assurer toute la s\u00e9curit\u00e9 dont il a besoin, lui donner l’amour et les moyens de grandir et de s’\u00e9panouir. S’obstiner dans l’id\u00e9e qu’il faut un p\u00e8re et une m\u00e8re m’\u00e9nerve. Je reste persuad\u00e9 (et sans aucun doute) que c’est l’\u00e9quilibre id\u00e9al pour un enfant<\/strong> mais si ce n’est pas possible, il faut faire avec et trouver la meilleure situation possible. On pourrait m\u00eame parler des mariages homo pour pousser le sujet encore plus loin…<\/p>\n

Je ne souhaite accuser personne dans ce texte. Ce n’est pas facile d’\u00eatre parent. Mais certains ont d’autres probl\u00e8mes dans la vie qui ne leurs permettent pas d’\u00eatre en phase avec les nombreux besoins de l’enfant. Il faut savoir le reconna\u00eetre, prendre les dispositions n\u00e9cessaires, se faire parfois aider, en gardant une seule et unique priorit\u00e9 : le bien de son enfant<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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